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I am so grateful for all the lessons I learned on the Tillie Ride. I was learning the same lessons you were. It’s easy to talk about things like pacing yourself, but hard to put them into practice. As I look over all the wonderful and not-so-wonderful things that happened, two really stand out.
The students and teachers–in other words, you! Every single one of you.
Gratitude is more than just feeling thankful. It can help you move forward.
While I was training for the Tillie Ride, I would often get frustrated. Maybe it was all the miles I was putting in on the bike. I don’t know. I found myself getting angry a lot. A very wise friend told me to take the same subject and think about why I was grateful for that person or organization. Here’s an example. Maybe I was angry with Tillie the Terrible German Shepherd for running off when I let her outside to go to the bathroom. Instead of yelling and stomping my foot while I was looking for her, I could think about why I was grateful to Tillie. I’m grateful to Tillie because she makes me laugh. I’m grateful for her soft fur. I’m grateful that she protects me. I’m grateful to come home and have her be so happy to see me. It’s hard to be angry when you’re grateful. Gratitude just melts it away.
Even cars that cut me off! I can say, “Thank you for helping me to be present and take care of myself.” (However, I still think they should be better behaved.)
Gratitude IS a tool. But mostly, right now, for me, it’s just a feeling. I am grateful for your youth, your energy, your spirit, your hopefulness. When you share it with me, I feel young again. I feel wonderful. I want to go out and make the world a better place. The only thing that could make me more grateful than I am right now is hearing from you in the future about all the wonderful adventures you’ve had and the amazing things you’ve been able to do through hard work, practice and perseverance and sometimes just plain old stubbornness.
Don’t give up. You can do it. I believe in you!